The next two posts will document how I grew to love India, after being indifferent/embarassed of my heritage. It’s interesting to note I was never ashamed of being adopted in and of itself, just being Indian.
Category: international adoption
The Narrative Burden
Where are you from?
It’s a seemingly innocuous question, but for an international adoptee a complicated one…
Lucky is only half the story.
Throughout my life, when I discuss my adoption, people always seem to respond with -”A.J. you are so lucky.”
Why Did I Begin An Adoption Blog?
After much hand wringing and contemplation, I joined the blogosphere a few weeks ago. Many of you probably wonder why. There are numerous blogs about adoption, both domestic or international. Many people blog about identity issues, birthmother conundrums, and the list goes on. Some are cheery reads, while others barely hide deep pain, anger, and… Continue reading Why Did I Begin An Adoption Blog?
Father’s Day for an Adoptee
I have a father, who I consider one of my closest friends in the world. But this post is not about the man I know, but rather my biological father, whom I don’t. Who is my birth father? I’ve often wondered what he’s like. Are we the same height? Do we have similar body types?… Continue reading Father’s Day for an Adoptee
Celebrating my Adoption Anniversary
my description of celebrating my anniversary of coming to the U.S.